My Guy Type
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One of the toughest questions for me to answer is "What type of guy do you like?"  Any answer could be so self-incriminating and forever label me with anyone of several less than flattering titles.  A few times I responded honestly by saying, "I like several different types", only to get pinned into a corner with the question, "what is your favorite type?”  To give an honest answer to that question is impossible because I don't have any single type that I always prefer over the other types. So rather than giving a one-word answer let me describe both the physical and personality characteristics of the men that I find attractive.  First, let's do the physical.

1. Face: Clean-shaven.  Moustache, small goatee, or a little stubble, if it works on the person.  The face is the first thing I notice on a guy.
2. Butt: Firm round or bubble types.  This is the second thing I notice on a guy.
3. Weight: in proper proportion to height.  This is the third thing I notice.
4. Age: usually younger than me, but old enough to shave.  
5. Race: All. However, I am going through this phase right now with Mexican, Latino, South American, and Asian guys.  But I still meet and date people of all different races. 
6. Height: same height (5' 10") or less than me.  
7. Hair color: All.
8. Hair length: All. Full head of hair, but length not a factor.  It depends on the person; some people look better with long hair and some look better with short hair. The important thing is that it works for the person.
9. Eye color: All. 
10. Chest: size in proportion to the rest of the body and firm.  If hair naturally doesn't grow on it, that's OK, but if it does, I prefer it not be shaved.
11. Legs: size in proportion to the rest of the body...with hair.
12. Endowment: Cut or uncut. Average to small size.

Secondly, let me describe the personality traits that I'm attracted to:

1. Cheerful and easy going - not easily upset
2. Optimistic - sees the good side of most things
3. Tolerant of others - respects diversity, differing opinions
4. Affectionate - can relax, cuddle, and kiss in private
5. Masculine sensitivity - can express emotions and feelings in a calm way; emotionally balanced
6. Open-minded - considers new ideas
7. Self-confident and comfortable with himself
8. Positive work ethic - is employed and enjoys his job
9. Simplistic needs - blue collar pleasures
10. Honest - truthful, trustworthy, loyal
11. Sexually uninhibited - passionate, yet relaxed and playful during sex
12. Considerate of others - understands other people's needs and feelings in an unselfish manner

Photos of my types of guys